It’s a huge honor to be picked as someone’s MOH, so congrats! You’re likely the bride’s BFF or sister, a valued confidant, and someone who the bride wants standing beside her when she gets hitched. Here are a few surefire things you need to do as the bride’s go-to gal.
Give your opinion (when asked).
Help her search for venues, photographers, or any other vendor the bride and groom may want your input on. She’ll definitely want to hear your thoughts while making this big fashion decision, just make sure you aren’t too harsh.
Lead the bridal party.
Chances are, not all the bridesmaids will have met each other before and it’s important you make everyone in the group feel included. You can also help them with any dress shopping needs they may have or with making travel plans.
Plan the bachelorette party & bridal shower.
Ask the bride what she ‘d prefer to do. Does she want to go to vineyard? Make sure you have an idea of what she wants before making any plans.
Act as a liaison.
This way the bride and groom won’t feel bombarded and can focus on planning. The bride should be relaxing and getting ready the day of her wedding, not taking care of the last-minute details.
Help her search for venues, photographers, or any other vendor the bride and groom may want your input on. The bride should be relaxing and getting ready the day of her wedding, not taking care of the last-minute details.
Be a support system.
Throughout the whole process, your number one priority is to be there for her no matter what. As her maid of honor you’ve likely had some practice with that, but in this situation, she’s definitely going to need you more than ever. From planning mishaps to calming her wedding day jitters, she’s going to be so thankful she picked you to stand by her side on her special day.
Prepare an emergency kit.
Come fully armed with anything the bride may need! From touch-up necessities such as lipstick and concealer to backup items like bobby pins and mouthwash, the bride will be grateful to have these items on hand. See the full list of what to include.
You’re likely the bride’s BFF or sister, a valued confidant, and someone who the bride wants standing beside her when she gets hitched. Here are a few surefire things you need to do as the bride’s go-to gal.
Make sure the bride eats & drinks.
The bride is likely going to be running all over the place chatting with guests and catching up with friends she hasn’t seen in awhile. Keep an eye on her throughout the night and make sure she takes some time to eat, drink, and catch up with her new spouse!
Give a toast.
Typically the maid of honor is asked to give a speech at the reception. Don’t be nervous, it’s an opportunity to let the bride know how happy you are for her!
Come fully armed with anything the bride may need!
Cheers!
Frank, DJ Otto
www.DJOtto.com